Patient & Family Support

Co-Survivor Tips

Guidance and support for those who care for cancer patients.

Self-Care
Emotional Balance
Compassion
Mental Wellness

Understanding Co-Survivors

The vital role of those who support cancer patients

Co-Survivors Supporting Cancer Patients

What Makes a Co-Survivor?

Co-Survivors can fall into 2 categories:

Those Who Act Out of Pity and Sorrow

This leads to sympathy which can result in ignoring their own needs, putting themselves at risk for Compassion Fatigue.

Those Who Act Out of Compassion

These co-survivors recognize the importance of caring for themselves as well as caring for others. They are more driven by empathy, which is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. Although most of us experience sympathy for others in need, when combined with empathy it will ensure that both the survivor and the co-survivors needs are met.

Essential Tips for Co-Survivors

Practical guidance to support your caregiving journey

Make Time for Yourself

Take time off, join a support group, talk with a counselor, and be nice to yourself.

Find Meaning During Cancer Journey

Look at life in a new way, find purpose and value in your experience.

Educate Yourself

Learn about Compassion Fatigue and seek support when needed.

Set Emotional Boundaries

Establish healthy limits to protect your emotional wellbeing.

Find Outside Hobbies

Maintain activities that bring you joy and fulfillment outside of caregiving.

Keep a Gratitude Journal

Document positive moments and things you're thankful for each day.

Learn Resilience

Develop skills to bounce back from difficult experiences.

Accept Imperfection

Know we all make mistakes – no one is perfect.

Express Your Feelings

Cry or express your feelings and find help with managing family conflicts that may occur.

Focus on What Matters

Focus on the things that are worth your time – let small stuff go.

Acknowledge Your Efforts

Remind yourself that you are doing your best.

Spend Time Alone

Take time to think about your own feelings and needs.

Ask for Support

Request help with tasks – you do not always have to be the expert.

Include Family Members

Allow teens/children to help out – it's good for them to feel they are contributing.

"How well people manage their lives marked by illness depends not on the nature of the illness, but on the strength of their conviction that life is worth living no matter what complications are imposed on it."

Additional Resources

Expert guidance for co-survivors facing challenges

Caregiver Self-Doubt

ASCO – Cancer.Net Article to Support Caregivers

If you have self-doubt when caring for a loved one with cancer, you're not alone. This article provides valuable insights and practical advice for managing the emotional challenges of caregiving.

Denver Area Co-Survivor Support

If you're in the Denver area, we can connect you with local co-survivor support groups, resources, and respite care options to help you on your caregiving journey.

Find Denver Resources